Can You Get a Cold From Having Sex?

The common cold is an upper respiratory infection, most often caused by the Rhinovirus. This virus targets the nasal airway mucosa, leading to minor symptoms such as a sore throat, runny nose, and congestion. A frequent question arises regarding the risk of transmission during sexual activity due to the close nature of intimate relationships. This article addresses whether the common cold can be passed between partners during intimacy and clarifies the transmission pathways of respiratory viruses.

The Direct Answer: Transmission During Intimacy

Catching a cold from a partner during intimacy is entirely possible, but it results from physical proximity, not the sexual act itself. The cold virus cannot be transmitted through sexual bodily fluids, such as semen or vaginal fluid, because the infectious agents do not establish an infection via the genital tract. Transmission occurs because the activity places two people in close contact, allowing for the exchange of respiratory particles and contaminated secretions. Kissing, for example, is a direct route for virus exchange through saliva. The close physical space means one partner is breathing air recently exhaled by the other, creating an environment where infectious particles can easily be passed.

Understanding How Cold Viruses Spread

Common cold viruses, such as Rhinovirus, are contagious and primarily spread through respiratory and contact routes. When an infected person coughs, sneezes, or talks, they expel tiny respiratory droplets into the surrounding air. These droplets contain the virus and are easily inhaled by a person nearby, leading to a new infection.

The virus also spreads through direct physical contact, often via hand-to-hand transmission. A person with a cold touches their face and then touches another person. If the recipient then touches their own eyes, nose, or mouth, they inoculate themselves with the virus.

Surfaces, known as fomites, also play a role in transmission because the Rhinovirus can remain viable on objects for several hours. An infected individual may contaminate objects like doorknobs, remote controls, or bedding with respiratory secretions. When a healthy person touches these contaminated surfaces and subsequently touches their face, the virus can gain access to the mucosal lining.

Colds Are Not Sexually Transmitted Infections

It is important to understand the difference between the common cold and a sexually transmitted infection (STI). STIs are classified as such because their primary means of transmission requires contact with specific bodily fluids or mucous membranes in the genital, anal, or oral regions. These infections, caused by bacteria, viruses, or parasites, are adapted to establish themselves in the warm, moist environment of the genitourinary tract.

The common cold virus is a respiratory pathogen that requires the specialized environment of the upper respiratory tract to replicate and cause disease. Unlike pathogens such as HIV or Chlamydia trachomatis, the cold virus is not found in high concentrations in genital fluids. While close physical contact during sex allows for respiratory transmission, the disease process does not align with the definition of an STI, which depends on a specific, non-respiratory transmission pathway.

Reducing the Risk of Sharing Germs

When one partner has a cold, simple adjustments to intimate routines can help reduce transmission.

Thorough handwashing with soap and water for at least twenty seconds before and after any close contact is an effective measure. This practice removes virus particles transferred onto the skin from the infected partner’s respiratory secretions.

Avoiding direct mouth-to-mouth contact, such as kissing, lowers the risk of viral exchange through saliva and respiratory droplets. It is also beneficial to choose intimate positions that minimize face-to-face proximity. Positions where partners face the same direction or have their heads separated by a greater distance can reduce the chance of inhaling expelled respiratory particles.

Cleaning shared objects in the bedroom, such as cell phones, bedside tables, and remote controls, can eliminate fomite transmission. If the symptomatic partner is coughing or sneezing, they should cover their mouth and nose with a tissue or their inner elbow to contain the infectious droplets.