Sexual cannibalism is a biological phenomenon where one mating partner kills and consumes the other. This behavior is most commonly observed among female spiders preying on their male counterparts. It is an intense manifestation of sexual conflict, where the reproductive interests of the male and female are at odds. While the term “black widow” has popularized the concept, the act of a female eating a male is a genuine, though varied, feature of mating rituals across the spider order, Araneae.
The Reality of Sexual Cannibalism
The answer to whether female spiders eat males is yes, though the frequency and context vary widely by species. Sexual cannibalism is defined as the female consuming the male before, during, or immediately after copulation. The female’s motivation is often that of a predator interacting with a much smaller organism.
In many species, the female is significantly larger and more aggressive than the male, a condition known as sexual size dimorphism. This size difference makes the male a vulnerable target and strongly correlates with the prevalence of cannibalism. The frequency can range from 0% to nearly 100% of mating encounters.
The timing of consumption determines whether the male successfully transfers his sperm. Pre-copulatory cannibalism occurs when the male is attacked during courtship, preventing mating entirely. Post-copulatory cannibalism happens after sperm transfer is complete and is the more common scenario, particularly noted in groups like the widow spiders.
Nutritional and Evolutionary Drivers
The evolution of this mating strategy centers on the benefits the female gains. One hypothesis is nutritional gain, suggesting the male is an adaptive foraging opportunity. The male provides a protein and nutrient boost that the female can use to increase her reproductive output.
Consuming a male increases the female’s fecundity, resulting in a larger number of eggs or a higher hatching success rate. The protein provided helps allocate energy directly into egg production, translating to a measurable increase in the female’s reproductive success.
In some species, the male’s sacrifice is viewed as paternal investment, directly benefiting his offspring. For instance, the Australian redback spider (Latrodectus hasselti) male actively somersaults onto the female’s fangs during copulation, facilitating his own consumption. Males cannibalized this way achieve longer copulation times, increasing sperm transfer and boosting their chances of fertilizing the female’s eggs.
Females may also engage in cannibalism because they are opportunistic predators, or because the male’s courtship display failed to signal his identity as a mate. Another theory, the “aggressive spillover hypothesis,” posits that the female’s high aggression, beneficial for foraging and survival, simply spills over into her mating behavior, causing her to treat the male as prey.
Male Survival Strategies
Despite the danger, male spiders have evolved numerous counter-adaptations to maximize reproductive success while minimizing the risk of being eaten. One common tactic is offering a nuptial gift, where the male presents the female with a wrapped prey item. This distracts the female, allowing the male a window of opportunity to mate while she is focused on feeding.
Males also seek out females who are temporarily less aggressive or vulnerable. This includes mating immediately after the female has molted, when her exoskeleton is soft and she is immobile. Other males engage in opportunistic mating while the female is already occupied with feeding on different prey.
More extreme strategies involve manipulating the female. Some males use silk to restrain or bind the female during courtship, temporarily immobilizing her long enough to complete copulation and escape. Redback spider males have been observed mating with immature females, who cannot yet cannibalize them but can store sperm until they mature, allowing the male to survive and potentially mate again.
Species Variation in Mating Behaviors
The spectrum of sexual cannibalism is vast, ranging from species where it is an expected ritual to those where it is a rare anomaly. In some widow spiders, such as the Australian redback spider, post-copulatory cannibalism is a male-initiated strategy. Occurring in about 65% of matings, the male’s self-sacrifice is a mechanism to secure paternity.
Other species exhibit complex courtship displays to actively prevent the female from attacking. Many jumping spiders (Salticidae), known for their keen vision, engage in elaborate visual dances to signal their intent, distinguishing themselves from prey. In these species, cannibalism is infrequent or absent, demonstrating that the behavior is not universal across the spider order.

