The question of whether the father or the mother determines a baby’s size involves more than simple genetic inheritance. “Size” encompasses prenatal growth, birth weight, and length, and the ultimate answer is a complex interplay between the genetic blueprint contributed by both parents and the physiological conditions provided by the mother during pregnancy. While a child inherits an equal amount of DNA from each parent, the expression of certain genes and the intrauterine environment create distinct influences on a baby’s development. The parent who has the most influence changes depending on whether one is looking at the baby’s size at birth or their eventual adult stature.
The Dominant Role of the Maternal Environment
The mother exerts the strongest influence on a baby’s actual size at birth, largely through the physiological support system she provides. This effect is primarily non-genetic, acting as a filter or limit on the baby’s inherited growth potential. The placenta is the central organ in this process, acting as the interface for nutrient and oxygen transfer from mother to fetus.
The efficiency of the placenta directly dictates the rate of fetal growth, and its function is highly dependent on the mother’s health. Conditions like maternal hypertension or diabetes can impair placental blood flow and nutrient delivery, potentially restricting the baby’s growth regardless of their genetic predisposition. Conversely, a higher pre-pregnancy maternal Body Mass Index (BMI) or excessive weight gain during pregnancy is often associated with a larger birth weight.
A baby who is genetically programmed to be large may be born an average size if the mother’s uterine environment is restrictive. This restriction can be due to the sheer physical capacity of the uterus or external factors like maternal smoking, which reduces the overall supply of nutrients and oxygen. Studies involving ovum donation have shown that a recipient mother’s larger size and affluent intrauterine environment can result in a heavier baby, even when the genetic contribution comes from a smaller donor mother.
General Genetic Contributions to Size
The potential for an individual’s ultimate size, particularly their adult height, is determined by the additive effect of genes inherited equally from both parents. Height and weight are considered polygenic traits, meaning they are influenced by the combined action of hundreds of genes, each having a small effect. The general genetic makeup for stature is split 50/50 between the mother and the father.
If both parents are tall, the baby inherits a greater number of height-promoting gene variants, giving them a high genetic potential for being tall themselves. This equal genetic contribution provides the blueprint for the child’s maximum potential size. However, this genetic potential is only realized if the environment allows for it.
The genes responsible for general stature are distinct from the specific growth-regulating genes that exhibit parent-of-origin effects during fetal development. This additive inheritance is the long-term foundation for adult size, but it is frequently overshadowed by the immediate influences of the intrauterine environment on birth size.
Parent-Specific Growth Regulation Through Genomic Imprinting
Despite the general 50/50 split in genetic inheritance, a unique biological mechanism called genomic imprinting provides a parent-specific advantage in determining fetal size. Genomic imprinting is an epigenetic process where only the gene copy inherited from one specific parent is active, while the other copy is silenced. This phenomenon is especially prevalent in genes that regulate fetal growth and placental development.
The parental conflict hypothesis offers an evolutionary explanation for this pattern, suggesting a biological tug-of-war over maternal resources. Paternally expressed genes tend to be “growth promoters,” pushing the fetus to acquire maximum resources and grow larger. A prime example is the Insulin-like Growth Factor 2 (IGF2) gene, which is primarily expressed from the paternal chromosome and is a major growth hormone in the fetus.
Conversely, maternally expressed genes often act as “growth suppressors,” limiting the drain on the mother’s resources to protect her health and conserve resources for future pregnancies. The IGF2 Receptor (IGF2R) gene, which is typically expressed from the maternal chromosome, targets the growth-promoting IGF2 protein for degradation, thereby restricting fetal size. This genetic conflict ensures a balanced outcome, with the paternal genes driving growth and the maternal genes maintaining restraint.
Distinguishing Birth Size from Adult Stature
The final size of a person is a combination of their temporary birth size and their permanent adult stature. While the mother’s environment and specific imprinted genes have the greatest influence on the size of the baby at birth, the combined genetics of both parents determine the child’s final adult height. Birth size is a temporary measure that reflects the nutrient supply and placental function during nine months of gestation.
After birth, many children experience a period of “catch-up growth” or “catch-down growth,” where their size trajectory shifts toward their genetically determined percentile. For instance, a genetically tall baby who was restricted by a less-efficient placenta may rapidly grow taller after birth, moving toward the height potential established by both parents’ genes. Conversely, a large baby born to short parents may slow their growth rate to align with their genetic potential.
The most reliable tool for predicting a child’s final adult height is the mid-parental height calculation, which averages the heights of both the mother and the father. This confirms that for lifelong stature, the genetic contributions of the mother and the father are equal. Therefore, the mother largely determines how big the baby is at birth, but both parents equally determine how tall the person will be as an adult.

