How to Have an At-Home Birth: What You Need to Know

Planning a home birth starts with confirming you’re a good candidate, choosing a qualified midwife, preparing your space and supplies, and having a solid backup plan in case you need hospital care. The process takes months of preparation, not weeks, and the details matter for both safety and comfort.

Who Is a Good Candidate

Home birth is safest for people carrying a single baby, in a head-down position, with no major pregnancy complications. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists specifically advises against planned home birth if you’re pregnant with multiples, your baby is breech, you’ve had a prior cesarean delivery, or you’re past 41 weeks of pregnancy. First-time parents and those with certain chronic health conditions also face higher risks compared to people who’ve had uncomplicated vaginal deliveries before.

This isn’t just a loose recommendation. Transfer rates tell the story clearly: about 30.5% of first-time parents who plan a home birth end up transferring to a hospital during labor, according to a Washington State study published in Obstetrics & Gynecology. For people who’ve given birth before, that number drops to just 4.2%. If you’re a first-time parent, those odds are worth factoring into your decision and your planning.

Choosing the Right Midwife

ACOG and the American Academy of Pediatrics recommend that only midwives certified by the American Midwifery Certification Board attend home births. That means a certified nurse midwife (CNM) or certified midwife (CM) practicing within an integrated, regulated health system. These credentials matter because certified midwives carry emergency medications, know when to call for help, and have established relationships with local hospitals for transfers.

When interviewing midwives, ask about their training, how many home births they’ve attended, what emergency equipment they carry, their transfer rate, and which hospital they have a relationship with. A good midwife will also do a thorough assessment of your pregnancy history and current health to determine whether home birth is appropriate for you specifically. They won’t just say yes to everyone.

Midwife-led home birth care typically includes prenatal visits throughout pregnancy, continuous support during labor, fetal heart rate monitoring at regular intervals, and a minimum of two hours of postpartum observation after delivery. Your midwife will track your blood pressure, your baby’s heart rate, and your overall progress throughout labor, just as they would in a birth center.

Building a Transfer Plan

Every home birth needs a written plan for getting to a hospital if complications arise. This is not optional, and it’s not pessimistic. It’s a core part of safe home birth planning.

Your transfer plan should include the name and address of your backup hospital, the fastest driving route (and an alternate), who will drive, who will stay with any older children, and what information your midwife will communicate to the hospital team on arrival. Ideally, your midwife already has a working relationship with the hospital’s labor and delivery unit, so the handoff is smooth rather than chaotic. Ask your midwife about this early. If they don’t have a hospital collaboration arrangement, that’s a red flag.

You should also pack a hospital bag well before your due date. Include your health card or insurance information, comfortable clothes for you and the baby, an infant car seat, extra overnight pads, a refillable water bottle, snacks, toiletries, newborn diapers, and pillows.

Preparing Your Home

Your midwife will give you a supply list tailored to their practice, but the essentials fall into a few categories: comfort items for labor, protective coverings for your home, supplies for the baby, and basic medical items.

Comfort and Labor Supplies

  • Food and hydration: Light snacks, a refillable water bottle, ice chips or popsicles, honey or electrolyte drinks
  • Pain management: Hot water bottle or heating pad, ice pack, acetaminophen, ibuprofen
  • Comfort items: At least two pillows, washcloths, comfortable clothing options, anti-nausea tablets, a bowl for vomiting
  • Optional extras: Music and a speaker, a mirror for watching the birth, a camera, a notebook

Protecting Your Space

Birth is messy. The standard approach is to layer your bed: a clean fitted sheet on the bottom, a waterproof layer in the middle (a shower curtain or plastic sheet works), and another clean fitted sheet on top. After delivery, you peel off the top layers and you’re left with a clean bed. Line your pillows with plastic bags under the pillowcases. Keep large garbage bags on hand for laundry and trash, a roll of paper towels, hydrogen peroxide or baking soda for stain removal, and a large zippered freezer bag for the placenta.

Your midwife will also need a grounded extension cord or power bar for their equipment, a sturdy tray like a cookie sheet for laying out supplies, a bright lamp for good visibility, and a digital thermometer.

Baby Supplies

Have newborn diapers, two newborn-size hats (babies lose heat fast through their heads), receiving blankets, a onesie and sleeper, large clean towels, and olive oil for the baby’s bottom ready and accessible in the room where you plan to deliver.

What Happens During Labor

When you start having contractions, you’ll call your midwife. In the early phase, they may stay in contact by phone and coach you through what to expect. If things are progressing slowly, they’ll offer a face-to-face assessment at home when you request one or when it’s clinically needed. Once active labor begins, your midwife will come to your home and stay with you continuously through delivery and for at least two hours afterward.

During labor, your midwife monitors your baby’s heart rate at regular intervals and checks your blood pressure, temperature, and labor progress. If your blood pressure spikes or stays elevated, if your baby’s heart rate shows concerning patterns, or if labor stalls, your midwife will recommend transferring to the hospital. Most transfers are non-emergency situations where labor simply isn’t progressing, not dramatic crises. But midwives also carry IV supplies, fluids, and medications to manage bleeding in case of postpartum hemorrhage, buying critical time during a transfer.

You have a lot of freedom during a home birth that you wouldn’t have in most hospitals. You can eat and drink, move around, labor in water, change positions freely, and control your environment. Many people find this autonomy is the primary reason they choose home birth in the first place.

After the Birth

Your midwife will monitor you and your baby for at least two hours after delivery, watching for signs of excessive bleeding, checking that your uterus is contracting, and making sure your baby is breathing well, maintaining body temperature, and latching for feeding.

One thing that’s easy to overlook: newborn screening is still required. The CDC recommends that babies not born in a hospital be taken to a clinic or hospital within 24 to 48 hours after birth for a heel-prick blood test that screens for genetic, endocrine, and metabolic disorders. Your midwife can arrange this, but make sure it’s on your checklist. Ask your midwife about vitamin K administration and hearing screening as well, since these are standard newborn procedures that need to happen regardless of birth location.

What It Costs

The average cost of a home birth in the United States is around $4,650, with most falling between $3,200 and $6,000. That’s significantly less than the estimated $13,562 average for a vaginal hospital birth. However, insurance coverage varies widely. Some insurance plans cover midwifery care and home birth fully, others partially, and some not at all. Medicaid coverage depends on your state.

For comparison, the average out-of-pocket maternity cost for people with employer-sponsored insurance is about $4,945 for a vaginal hospital birth, which is actually close to the total cost of a home birth. If your insurance doesn’t cover home birth, you’re paying the full amount yourself. If it does, a home birth can be substantially cheaper. Call your insurance provider early in pregnancy to find out exactly what’s covered, and get it in writing. Your midwife’s office may also be able to help you navigate this, since they deal with insurance questions regularly.

Timeline for Planning

Start planning early in pregnancy, ideally during the first trimester. You’ll need time to find and interview midwives (the best ones book up quickly), confirm your insurance coverage, complete your prenatal care, prepare your home, and assemble supplies. By 36 weeks, your supply kit should be ready, your transfer plan should be finalized, and your midwife should have a clear picture of your health and your baby’s position. Most midwives will do a home visit around this time to assess the space and go over logistics with you and your support person.