Preparing for a massage takes just a few simple steps, but getting them right makes a noticeable difference in how the session feels. Most of it comes down to timing: when you eat, when you shower, when you arrive, and how you communicate with your therapist before they start working.
Stay Hydrated Beforehand
Hydrated muscle tissue is softer and easier to work with. Think of a dry sponge versus a wet one: the dry sponge is stiff and rigid, while the wet one is pliable. Your muscles respond to hydration the same way. When you’re well-hydrated, your therapist can manipulate the tissue more effectively, and you’re less likely to feel sore afterward.
There’s no magic number of glasses to drink right before your appointment. The goal is to be consistently hydrated throughout the day, not chugging water in the waiting room. If your urine is pale yellow, you’re in good shape.
Eat Lightly, and Time It Right
Eat one to two hours before your session. That window gives your body enough time to digest so you’re not lying face-down on a full stomach, which can cause nausea, bloating, or acid reflux. Skip heavy, greasy, or spicy foods in that pre-massage meal. A light snack like fruit, toast, or a handful of nuts works well. You also don’t want to go in starving, since hunger can make it harder to relax and you may feel lightheaded during the session.
Shower Before You Go
A quick shower before your appointment is a basic courtesy that therapists genuinely appreciate. They’re working in close contact with your skin, often for an hour or more. Showing up clean makes the experience more comfortable for both of you and helps maintain a hygienic treatment environment. A warm shower can also start relaxing your muscles before you even get on the table.
Go easy on perfume, cologne, or heavily scented lotions. Your therapist will be applying their own massage oil or lotion, and strong fragrances can clash or irritate sensitive skin.
Skip the Hard Workout
If you exercise regularly, be thoughtful about scheduling. Intense training right before a massage isn’t ideal. Your muscles are already inflamed and fatigued from the workout, and deep pressure on top of that can increase soreness rather than relieve it. Deep tissue work on freshly exercised muscles can actually decrease muscle strength by up to 9%.
If you want to combine exercise and massage on the same day, schedule the massage at least two to four hours after your workout. That gives your body time to begin its natural recovery process, and the massage can then support it rather than compete with it. Light movement like walking or gentle stretching before a massage is fine.
Arrive Early Enough for Paperwork
Plan to arrive 10 to 15 minutes before your scheduled start time, especially for a first visit. You’ll need to fill out an intake form covering your physical condition, medical history, lifestyle, stress levels, current medications, and any areas of pain. This isn’t busywork. Your therapist uses this information to decide which techniques are safe for you and where to focus their attention. Certain medications, for example, may require them to adjust their pressure or avoid specific areas entirely.
Be honest on the form. If you skip mentioning a health condition because it seems unrelated, your therapist loses information they need to treat you safely.
Know What to Communicate
Before the session starts, your therapist will typically ask what you’re hoping to get out of the massage. This is your chance to say whether you want deep, focused work on a problem area or a lighter, full-body session for relaxation. Mention any spots that are particularly sore, tender, or off-limits.
Communication doesn’t stop once the massage begins. If the pressure feels too deep or too light, say so. If a technique is uncomfortable, speak up. Therapists can’t read your mind, and most would much rather you redirect them than lie there silently enduring something that doesn’t feel good. You can also let them know whether you prefer to chat or stay quiet during the session. There’s no wrong answer.
What to Wear (and What to Expect)
You undress to your comfort level. Some people remove everything, others keep their underwear on, and both are completely normal. Your therapist will leave the room while you change and get under the sheet on the table.
During the session, professional draping keeps you covered at all times. Only the area being worked on is exposed, and it’s re-covered before the therapist moves to a new area. Your shoulders, neck, face, and head may remain uncovered, but everything else stays draped. If you’re having work done on a sensitive area like the inner thigh or chest, your therapist should discuss exactly how they’ll drape and touch that area before proceeding. You always have the right to decline any part of the treatment.
If you’d prefer to stay partially clothed, that’s an option too. Therapists can work through clothing or a sheet for certain techniques, though direct skin contact typically allows for better tissue manipulation.
When to Reschedule
Some conditions make massage unsafe, and knowing them ahead of time saves you a wasted trip. You should reschedule if you have a fever, an active infection (flu, COVID, stomach bug), or a contagious skin condition like ringworm or impetigo. Recent acute injuries, including broken bones, severe sprains, or anything from a recent surgery or accident, also rule out massage until you’ve healed further.
People with a history of blood clots, including deep vein thrombosis, should talk to their doctor before booking. The same goes for uncontrolled high blood pressure, uncontrolled diabetes, or advanced liver or kidney problems. Massage places additional circulatory demands on the body, and these conditions can make that risky.
Some issues are local rather than session-ending. If you have a sunburn, a rash, bruising, varicose veins, or a swollen area, let your therapist know. They can simply avoid those spots and work on the rest of your body without any problem.
Setting Yourself Up to Relax
Give yourself a buffer on both sides of the appointment. Rushing from a stressful meeting to the massage table, then immediately jumping back into your day, undercuts the whole point. Even 15 minutes of quiet time after the session lets your nervous system stay in that relaxed state a bit longer.
Turn your phone off or leave it in the car. Silence your notifications. If you wear contacts and tend to fall asleep easily, consider switching to glasses for the day so you’re not worried about your lenses drying out on the table. Small logistical annoyances are easier to solve before the session than during it.

