What Kind of Therapy Is There? How to Choose

There are dozens of types of therapy, but most fall into a handful of broad categories: therapies that focus on changing your thought patterns, therapies that help you process trauma, therapies that explore your past, and therapies built around acceptance and mindfulness. The right fit depends on what you’re dealing with and how you prefer to work. Here’s a practical breakdown of the most widely used approaches.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT is the most researched and widely practiced form of therapy. It’s built on a straightforward idea: the way you think about a situation shapes how you feel and act. By learning to recognize unhelpful thinking patterns and test whether they’re based on facts or assumptions, you can change your emotional responses and behavior.

Sessions are structured and goal-oriented. You and your therapist identify specific problems you want to work on, then use techniques like examining evidence for and against a belief, practicing new behaviors, and doing homework between sessions. That homework might include tracking your thoughts, reading, or trying out skills in real-life situations. CBT is typically short-term, often running 12 to 20 sessions, and it has strong evidence for treating depression, anxiety, insomnia, and chronic pain.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

DBT grew out of CBT but adds a layer of emphasis on emotional regulation and distress tolerance. It was originally developed for people with borderline personality disorder and remains a leading treatment for that condition, though it’s now used for a much wider range of issues including self-harm, addiction, and intense mood swings.

The therapy teaches four core skill sets: mindfulness (staying present without judgment), distress tolerance (getting through a crisis without making it worse), emotion regulation (understanding and managing intense feelings), and interpersonal effectiveness (communicating your needs while maintaining relationships). DBT typically combines individual therapy sessions with a weekly skills group, which runs through each module over several weeks. The distress tolerance module alone takes five to seven weeks, with additional weeks for people dealing with addiction.

Psychodynamic Therapy

Where CBT looks at your current thought patterns, psychodynamic therapy digs into your past. The core idea is that many of your feelings, reactions, and relationship patterns are shaped by unconscious thoughts, often rooted in early experiences and relationships you had growing up. Therapy involves bringing those hidden influences into awareness so you can understand why you react the way you do.

This approach tends to be longer-term and more open-ended than CBT. It doesn’t aim to stop symptoms quickly. Instead, it helps you understand deep emotional patterns and solve recurring problems in your life and relationships. Research supports it particularly for depression and personality disorders. If you’re someone who wants to understand the “why” behind your struggles rather than just manage symptoms, psychodynamic therapy is often a good match.

EMDR for Trauma

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a trauma-focused therapy that works differently from talk-based approaches. Instead of spending sessions talking through a traumatic event in detail, EMDR has you briefly focus on a distressing memory while following a side-to-side stimulus, usually the therapist’s finger moving back and forth or tapping on alternating sides of your body.

The process moves through eight phases. Early sessions focus on gathering your history and building coping skills. The active reprocessing phase involves holding the traumatic memory in mind during bilateral stimulation until the distress around it drops. Your therapist measures this using a simple 0-to-10 scale, continuing until your rating reaches zero. After reprocessing, you do a body scan from head to toe to check for any lingering physical tension tied to the memory. Each follow-up session opens by reassessing how you feel about the memory. If distress has dropped, you move to the next target memory. EMDR is best known for treating PTSD, but therapists also use it for phobias, grief, and anxiety.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

ACT takes a fundamentally different approach from therapies that try to change or eliminate negative thoughts. Instead, it teaches you to notice difficult thoughts and feelings without fighting them, then take action based on what matters most to you. The goal is psychological flexibility: being able to experience discomfort without letting it control your behavior.

The therapy works through six interconnected processes. Acceptance means allowing painful feelings to exist rather than struggling against them. Cognitive defusion involves changing your relationship with unhelpful thoughts, not by arguing with them, but by seeing them as just words or mental events rather than commands you have to follow. Being present means engaging with what’s actually happening instead of getting lost in worry or rumination. Self-as-context helps you observe your own experiences without being defined by them. Values clarification helps you identify what genuinely matters to you across different areas of life, like family, career, or personal growth, rather than choosing directions based on fear or social pressure. Committed action ties it all together by setting concrete goals aligned with those values.

ACT works well for anxiety, chronic pain, depression, and situations where avoidance has become a dominant coping strategy.

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP)

ERP is the gold-standard therapy for obsessive-compulsive disorder. It works by gradually exposing you to the thoughts, images, or situations that trigger your obsessions while helping you resist performing the compulsions that usually follow. Over time, your brain learns that the anxiety will pass on its own without the ritual.

Treatment follows a clear structure. Your therapist first learns about your specific triggers, obsessions, and compulsions, then builds a plan tailored to you. In sessions, you practice facing triggers at a manageable pace while resisting avoidance or rituals. Afterward, you and your therapist process what happened and how you handled it. The results are solid: studies show that more than 60% of people who complete ERP experience a significant reduction in OCD symptoms, and roughly 30% become fully symptom-free.

Group Therapy

Group therapy isn’t a separate technique. It’s a format where any of the approaches above (CBT, DBT, ACT, and others) can be delivered to several people at once, typically 5 to 12, led by one or two therapists. Research from the American Psychological Association shows group therapy is as effective as individual therapy for many conditions, and it offers benefits you can’t get one-on-one.

The most powerful of those is universality: discovering that other people feel the same way you do. That alone can reduce the shame and isolation that often accompany mental health struggles. Groups also let you practice social skills in real time, give and receive feedback, and experience the mood-boosting effect of helping others. Practicing altruism within a group setting has been shown to improve symptoms of depression specifically.

Online vs. In-Person Therapy

A large study tracking over 17,000 clients across 138 counseling centers from 2021 to 2024 found that telehealth and in-person therapy produced nearly identical symptom improvement. The difference between the two formats was so small (0.03 points on a standardized scale) that it was not clinically meaningful. Slightly more clients, 58% versus 42%, were predicted to benefit marginally more from telehealth, but the practical difference was negligible. In short, pick the format that you’ll actually show up to consistently. Convenience matters more than the delivery method.

How to Choose the Right Type

Start with what you’re trying to address. If you’re dealing with anxiety or depression and want structured, skills-based work, CBT is a reliable starting point. If you have OCD, look specifically for a therapist trained in ERP. Trauma and PTSD respond well to EMDR or other trauma-focused approaches. If your main struggles involve intense emotions, unstable relationships, or self-destructive patterns, DBT was designed for exactly that. If you’re drawn to understanding yourself on a deeper level and aren’t looking for a quick fix, psychodynamic therapy may suit you better.

Many therapists are trained in multiple approaches and will blend techniques based on your needs. It’s also worth knowing that the number of sessions matters less than you might think. A meta-analysis of depression treatment found no relationship between the total number of sessions and the size of improvement. Brief, focused therapy delivered consistently can be just as effective as longer courses of treatment.

Therapist Credentials to Know

When searching for a provider, you’ll encounter different license types. A Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) holds a master’s degree in social work, tends to focus on individuals, and often coordinates care across different services in addition to providing therapy. A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) has a master’s degree in counseling or family therapy and specializes in relationship dynamics, including couples, families, and parent-child conflicts. A Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) has a master’s in counseling and provides general therapy across a broad range of issues. A psychologist with a PsyD or PhD has doctoral-level training and can conduct psychological testing in addition to therapy. Psychiatrists are medical doctors who can prescribe medication but may or may not offer talk therapy.

All of these providers can be excellent therapists. The credential matters less than whether the person is trained in the specific approach you need and whether you feel comfortable working with them.