The determination of a baby’s sex is governed entirely by the genetic material contributed by the parents, rooted in the microscopic pairing of chromosomes that occurs at conception. Understanding which parent supplies the determining factor reveals a precise biological mechanism.
The Chromosomal Basis of Sex
The scientific foundation for sex determination lies in the human genome, which contains 23 pairs of chromosomes, with one set inherited from each parent. The first 22 pairs are known as autosomes and carry the genetic information for most of the body’s characteristics. The final pair, the sex chromosomes, are the ones that dictate biological sex. Females typically possess two X chromosomes (XX), while males typically possess one X and one Y chromosome (XY).
The combination of these two chromosomes in the fertilized egg determines the developing embryo’s sex. These sex chromosomes are distinct from the autosomes because the pair in males is not homologous in size and gene content. A zygote that receives two X chromosomes will develop as biologically female, whereas one that receives an X and a Y chromosome will develop as biologically male.
The Father’s Decisive Role
The parent who provides the determining factor for the sex of the child is the father. This is because a male produces two distinct types of sperm cells: those carrying an X chromosome and those carrying a Y chromosome. Approximately half of the sperm produced will contain an X chromosome, and the other half will contain a Y chromosome.
The moment of fertilization instantly determines the baby’s sex, based on which type of sperm successfully penetrates the egg. If a sperm carrying an X chromosome fertilizes the egg, the resulting combination is XX, leading to a female. Conversely, if a sperm carrying a Y chromosome reaches the egg first, the combination is XY, which results in a male. The presence of the Y chromosome, which contains the SRY (Sex-determining Region Y) gene, initiates male development.
The Consistent Contribution of the Mother
In contrast to the father’s variable contribution, the mother’s role in the sex determination process is constant. Females possess two X chromosomes, and therefore, every egg cell produced always carries a single X chromosome. The mother acts as the predictable factor, supplying the necessary X chromosome to begin the pairing process.
This consistent contribution reinforces the biological fact that the mother always provides one X chromosome to the offspring. Ultimately, the mother’s genetic input is an X, and the father’s input is the variable X or Y that completes the pair.
Debunking Myths and External Influences
The biological reality of chromosomal inheritance dismisses numerous popular theories and old wives’ tales about sex selection. Theories suggesting that the timing of intercourse, specific sexual positions, or the parental diet can sway the outcome have no scientific basis. These external factors cannot alter the genetic composition of the sperm or the egg, which is set long before conception.
While the initial probability of conceiving a boy or a girl is often cited as a 50/50 chance, some studies suggest that a man’s genes may influence whether his sperm contains slightly more X or Y chromosomes over time. However, this is a subtle, internal genetic bias within the father and not a controllable external factor.

